If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late: A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together

Hard-hitting divorce lawyer James Sexton shares his insights and wisdom from the front lines of divorce to keep you out of his office and improve your relationship. If Youre in My Office Its Already Too Late. James Sexton knows this. After dealing with more than a thousand clients whose marriages have dissolved over everything from an ill-advised threesome with the nanny to the uneven division of carpool duties he also knows all of the what-not-to-dos for couples who want to buildand consistently work to preservea lasting fulfilling relationship. Described by former clients as a courtroom gunslinger and the sociopath you want on your side Sexton tells the unvarnished truth about relationships diving straight into the most common marital problems. These usually derive from dishonestor nonexistentcommunication. Even when the alleged reason for separation is one spouses new personal trainer theres likely a communication problem that predates the fitness kick. Symptom and root cause get confused all the time. Sexton has spent his career working with spouses-to-be-no-longer. Reverse engineering a relationship can help to identify and fix what does not work. Ever feel like youre holding back criticism of your spouse because you just cant have that fight right now? Sexton will tell you to Hit Send Now. Maybe you arent as adventurous as you used to be or need some "you time " but for some reason it seems weird or exhausting to change up the routine now. Sexton knows where that mentality leads and offers viable alternative paths to take. Though he deals constantly with the heartbreak of others he still believes in romance and the transformative power of love. This book is his opportunity to use what he has learned to help couples that arent so far gone get back on track.